

I get it, but at the same time, some very competent people that could be amazing parents need IVF and it’s not right to take that away from them or terrorize them for that choice.
Some might shame them for not adopting, but I think that’s a stupid mentality. Not everyone has the same needs to be filled with parenthood. Some want legacy, some want someone to love unconditionally, some want to give back to the community, some want a part of themselves and their partner to be left in this world, etc.
I’ve even heard some say IVF shouldn’t be covered by Universal Healthcare where I live, because “God didn’t want them to have kids anyway”, but if we went with that mentality, nothing would be covered by Universal Healthcare, because “God didn’t want them to live or be cured anyway”.
Too many people have a serious lack of empathy for others.
I think there’s a big difference between choosing to not have kids for personal reasons and being anti-natalist to such an extent that you see others as subhumans for wanting or having kids. Your experience and feelings are valid and of a sound mind. The person who did this has a twisted mind and lacks empathy.