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Cake day: June 9th, 2023

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  • You’ve had some good advice on here I think, so I’ll not add much other than to say I’m really sorry you’re hurting, and I hope some time and distance away from her (not in a hostile way, just for your own wellbeing) helps you feel better.

    Also, the therapy thing - when possible, yeah, talking shit out can really help. If money is an issue, there may still be some free local group counselling sessions you can find. I’ve done that, and I found that in addition to expressing my feeling, the process of listening to and comforting others actually made me feel better too.

    away from the eyes away from the heart (dont know if its used in english)

    Re that phrase, in English a common way of expressing much the same idea would be “Out of sight, out of mind”

    Good luck dude, it gets easier [hug] 👍











  • The one I always remember is from when I was a kid, probably about 8-10 years old.

    It’s basically just this. I was on a bridge over a river (not a huge bridge or a huge river) and I somehow knew that my younger brother had fallen into the water, and I jump down and the water is only about thigh deep and I’m searching and searching in this muddy water, pulling it apart frantically with my hands, and I just can’t find him, and it goes on and on. I can still see it vividly. Deeply unsettling.