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Cake day: February 14th, 2025

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  • IMO it’s not really the MAGA idiots you need to worry about. It’s the influential people in the republican party who are supporting Trump.

    You’re right that the stereotypical trump supporter can’t be dissuaded by economic hardship.

    However, the people that thought Trump was going to deliver them never before seen profits through de-regulation can very easily be dissuaded be economic hardship.

    An economic hole is forming, and if it’s deep enough and wide enough Trump will be unseated.





  • I’m not quite sure what you mean to imply.

    The topic of marriage did come up 6 years ago when we decided to have kids. At that time we decided it didn’t have much meaning for us.

    We didn’t really think about her family name at that time.

    When the kids were born she was emphatic that they should have my family name. She actually has a family name from a previous marriage, which wouldn’t be appropriate for our kids, and she’s estranged from her actual family so didn’t want her maiden name.

    Since the kids have been born this has been in the back of my mind and I’ve been meaning to address it, I assume it’s on her mind too.

    Honestly, just attending to all the things that need to be done in the last 2 years has been very challenging. This just hasn’t been a priority.

    Also for context, de facto relationships have legal standing in Australia. So the law treats us as though we were married. Our situation is not uncommon.

    I mentioned it to my sisters who suggested she could just use my family name as an alias, or just change her name to our family name, or we could elope. If she wanted to hyphenate that would be up to her of course but knowing her as I do I doubt she will want to.