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Cake day: August 8th, 2023

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  • Sweet!

    What’s up is everything I’ve been running and down is what I haven’t.

    not working

    I haven’t been able to get friendica to connect to Maria DB, so I’ll eventually try just MySql. Grafana isn’t running bc I would need to change a lot of things to get an exporter into each container and the truenas apps don’t really allow that configuration - fine if you have docker compose though, which I’ve started doing more and more.

    new

    I just got up and running with Stirling pdf, a free (and paid) PDF editor. That looks pretty sweet.

    But I’m now also using 15GB of the 32 on the system, which is still plenty for Arc cache for me

    what I want

    I want to rent a VPS to host various fediverse apps, probably Lemmy, pixelfed, and write freely to start, for the nomad/expect communities. I’ve been looking at netcup and they have some decent arm offerings.

    I’d like to put Talos Linux on it so I can get some kubernetes experience. They have a good sized server for €10, so I could expand to add a DB server or one specifically for logging and metrics.

    I was looking at Hetzner, but I’ve read that their block storage is super slow and causes timeouts on DB.

    Of course, can I even run these apps on arm? I guess I gotta find that out.

    One thing I’d like to do is make a web page that makes signups super easy and would create an account on all services, ideally. Not a huge deal of that isn’t reasonable, but it’d be nice to allow doing it once rather than multiple times. If I could get sso, that’d be good, but I don’t know how supported that is.






  • Have times changed? Yes. Do you need to approach women? Yes. Don’t hide behind a screen. Get out there and talk with women.

    Talking with people is not disrespectful. God, what a sad society is that?

    There’s a saying that goes something like, “Enlarge your territory, linger in public, walk through open doors.” That’s a good start. Get out of the house and linger in public places. Strike up conversations and be a social animal. Talk with everyone: men, women, young, old - get that practice in. If you talk with everyone, then you’re not putting as much pressure on yourself. Don’t get attached to an outcome, but challenge yourself to talk to people.

    I think you’re making excuses. I strike conversations with strangers all the time, including women. I go dancing for swing, salsa, bachata. You wanna see something that challenges your beliefs on interactions between men and women? Go watch Bachata.

    But anyway. Social skills are a skill and they need to be worked. Put yourself out there and get rejected. (You’ll learn it’s not so bad).