It might not be you, but it will be children having children with abortion bans and lack of sex education.

All due respect but your family sucks. I have a family who belittles my feelings and desires too and I’ve cut them out. You don’t have to cut them out completely, but definitely stop giving them power in your life. Research boundaries and ways to enforce them. This will also apply to your abusive friendship. Consider therapy and branching out for new friends (going to events and getting involved in your community is a great start). Best of luck!

But they can bring back debtors prisons. Not that long ago the USA had them

Even if everything he says is true he needs to learn to treat people better and not at the expense of your time and feelings. Leave him behind, work on yourself however feels right to you and you will very likely barely remember his name a decade from now. Don’t EVER settle for that sort of treatment.