• PugJesus@lemmy.world
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      7 months ago

      “This kid is smart. Let’s put him in the top class.”

      [gets put in the top class]

      “This kid’s grades are mediocre. Let’s put him in the mediocre class.”

      [grades remain mediocre, because it was never ‘challenge’ that was the issue, it was ‘remembering to turn in homework’]

  • TheImpressiveX@lemmy.ml
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    7 months ago

    See also: Schrödinger’s neurodivergence.

    “What’s wrong with you? Why are you like this?”

    “There’s nothing wrong with you, you need to stop making excuses.”

  • PugJesus@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    All my teachers loved me

    “I know you’re smart but” was a constant refrain of my school days, usually followed by “but you need to apply yourself”

    I was never very funny, funny enough.

    [leg shakes table and everyone asks what’s doing that]

  • Pistcow@lemm.ee
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    7 months ago

    My kid doesn’t have ADHD

    I went undiagnosed until mid-30s, then I finally get treatment, which allowed me to finally finish my degree while making Dean’s List while getting the rest of my life in order.