Hey I got my first pet and since its my first pet I don’t know really know how to show my love to her, so far she really hates getting touched.
Any advise would be lovely
Yep. Don’t try to force her to be affectionate. Just be around, and be non-threatening, annd mostly ignore her, and be the source of food, and soon she will grow to trust you.
New cat owner rules:
No sudden movements. No loud noises. Allow them to come to you. Pet them gently. Accept your fate, resistance is futile.
What other posters said, respond with the blinking. My son calls them eye kisses. It shows trust. In case you’re unfamiliar: you look at her and slowly close your eyes for a second. She might mirror it. Facing a fierce predator such as the one you pictured and confronting it willingly blinded, even for a second, takes courage. She’ll honour it most likely. Also food and clean water, preferably placed in separate locations.
