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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • uhh no. comparing our actual life experience today with the actual life experiences of our parents and grandparents is the only way to know if we’re doing better, the same, or worse.

    your argument is the argument of the domestic abuser and the authoritarian government and the rapacious theologian.

    “be grateful for what you have” or “it could be worse” is shitty advice.

    “The Coming Collapse of the Middle Class”

    https://youtu.be/akVL7QY0S8A

    Elizabeth Warren a long time ago told us what was coming, and it’s either here or nearly here.




  • When your parents say, “did you talk to any of them,” they mean did you strike up a conversation with a woman with no presumption of potential romantic outcome.

    When you say it, it seems like you’re assuming there’s a potential for a romantic outcome in every conversation between heterosexual men and women.

    Your goal should be to strike up a conversation with a woman about random topics of interest, including very shallow ones, with no expectation that you’re evaluating her as a potential mate, and she’s not evaluating you.

    Yes, we’re all subject to intrusive thoughts so from time to time, you’ll fail at this goal and start thinking about a romantic path. That’s fine. Just acknowledge it to yourself and endeavor to do better.

    It will probably take time and practice. Give yourself grace to try and fail and learn. You’ll know you’re succeeding when you realize you had a conversation with a woman without her gender being a consequential thought in your mind.