What a great day to be a grayjay user lol

lmao

The entire thread here is that answer, you need only an aspiration.

I’m saying I don’t agree with it being specific things

This assumes that it means specific things like enjoying flowers, its leaving behind the boyish immaturity.

Not only does a definition exist in various forms, or at least enough of one to figure it out but the assumption I’m making is that none of us meet the criteria and should aim to be better people.

The point isn’t about moving the goalpost so you win, it is meeting up with a better standard.

You are entirely right in my opinion, society is pretty sucky at making things right for people and so for now this concept of cultivating a mature personality aimed at men is as close as we can get for a simpler way to describe to a general group of people

This a good one

It is a word to describe a state of being, and a state of being that is a good one to have when understood correctly. Like for instance you probably don’t like talking to immature people.

No it goes

act - act - act ow when did my back break

Yeah I could see that

Oh man I cant believe I forgot to mention Adam Savage, that dude is a legend of a role model. He uploads to youtube nearly daily

Also, sleep, diet, exercise.

I’ve been getting into that the past year or so and I wish somebody told me sooner that if you get this basics right, you essentially become a 10x better version of yourself in everything lol

“Masculinity is not the opposite of femininity, but rather the opposite of boyish immaturity.”

This is the point I was making yes

I think we are meaning the same thing then

In that case matrix also doesn’t federate because its not interacting with the fediverse like here on lemmy.

But revolt, matrix, and rocket.chat are all deployable by end users to connect to the platform and interact with people.

There is revolt and rocket.chat but yes I’d still do matrix over the others unless a direct discord-like clone is absolutely a must for some reason

Aaaand back down lol